Monday, February 21, 2011

Becoming a Connecting Communicator is a Process

Chapter 6 of Maxwell's book was a relief. I love the chapter title: "Connecting is more skill than natural talent". What a relief. In particular, I have a tendency to confuse writing and speaking.

I have had to give two big presentations to the Provost and Deans in the last few months. I found that my first few drafts of the presentations were dry, boring, and overly dependent on details. It took me a lot of practice (and some key feedback in practice) to pare them down to just what was necessary and even to add a little humor (not exactly my forte).

One of the things I plan on studying over the next few months are the skills that make great speakers great. In particular, the use of storytelling and anecdotes to illustrate key points.

2 comments:

  1. Great points here! I often bump up against the reality that my audience doesn't know me. By that I mean that it is easy for me to 'connect' with those who I am regularly exposed to, but when preparing to present or attend a discussion, I really have to put on a different 'thinking cap' if you will. I tend to use my sense of humor in those times, but I forget that it may not be applicable or well received. Humor is my nervous reaction...and recognizing it is the first step, right? :)(case in point)

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  2. Two great posts. Tina you are spot on. I've found I will have sometimes 3-4 versions of a presentation to cover various audiences. I'll tell you some time my presentation to cabinet stories because there are some epic fails there. Great learning moments though!

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